Sunday, June 27, 2010

That Fine Line Between Arrogance and Confidence - For Gentlemen

Ah, so we had one in for the ladies. Here is the flip side, because I am fair, eh? ;) This is a great example of how a man is very confident and he is so gentle while confident. He doesn't have to be arrogant and rude or a prude to prove his confidence. A lot of men think that they do.

Please read my previous blog on this about ladies being confident so that you can get a better feel for the movie, "My Fair Lady".

Freddie is a gentlemen who fell in love with Eliza while she was still "learning". A diamond in the rough. He caught her in a bad mood because of something between her and Professor Higgins. She didn't want to hear another word, because that is all she heard. Tired of all the "words" she expresses what she wants.

Gentlemen, please notice how he acts the entire time. He listens to her and is still very gentle, wanting to be attentive to her needs. She is secretly wooed by him, but remember that she is not in the best of moods here.

The entire time he is gentle but very confident because he continues to pursue her. He is climbing that tree. It takes patience, lots of love and admiration and persistence.

Before this clip, he brought flowers and left them with the maid. Then danced and sang on the street, because of her. Again men, if you are humiliated for being this gentle, sincere and sweet, count it joy because a real lady LOVES that. She WILL meet your needs, just saying. If other men ridicule it is because they are jealous :) Period lol

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